Monday, April 21, 2014

Passover 2014, Part 2

Close your eyes…picture yourself flying over desert, seas, ancient ruins, mountains, forests, lakes and castles, then across oceans, rocky cliffs and large cities…and at the end of the journey, you have arrived in a place with friendly faces into the loving arms of family. Imagination? Perhaps, but actually, this was what we did in the middle of the week, flying from Israel to Toronto to end the holiday with the rest of the family. Now to fill in the blanks!

The Passover Seder: Last Monday seems like a long time ago, considering the busy week, but we will wind the clock back to the Seder night at the home of Geula and Yitzhak Twersky. I have written about the Seder each of the past 4 years, and reflected on the amazing educational event that it is. It is much more than telling the Passover story of the Exodus of the Jewish People from Egypt.  Done properly, it is truly a re-living of events, an opportunity to place oneself right into the story and feel the power of the experience. The Twersky home was a terrific and unique example of how to accomplish this. Gila has 9 brothers and sisters and 8 of the children (plus Ariel and Elisha) were there for the Seder. Geula had procured a “bag of tricks”; a large sac of toys and games that mirrored themes in the story and were given out throughout the evening to the kids. There were also new books, Haggadot that told the story of Passover, given to the younger siblings. The Twersky teens also prepare a Passover play for all to take part in; a terrific adaptation of the music of Annie to the Pesach story!! As we talked and sang into the wee hours of the morning, everyone seemed to gather more energy as the evening went on, not less!  

The next day we were invited to lunch at the home of Chani and Reuven Or. The Ors were our next door neighbors for almost 2 years in Denver. When we were all Denverites, their then teenage daughters were our babysitters and their sons were playmates for Monty and Elan. Fast forward to the present, and there are a lot of grownups and 12 grandchildren! Besides catching up with Reuven and Chani, we had a lot of fun talking to the rest of the family, reminiscing and marveling at where the time has gone. Of course, seeing our own kids and grandchildren means that we are caught in the same time warp!

The Festival of  Freedom: One of the beautiful things about our trips to Israel is the joie de vivre, excitement and liveliness in the streets. This is no more apparent than during Passover, when the weather is perfect, most people are on holiday and just about everyone is out on some type of “tiyul” (Hebrew for trip or outing). The streets and squares are packed, the restaurants are full (as if we don’t eat enough on this holiday) and things are really buzzing.  Passover is called the holiday of Freedom due to the Exodus from Egypt. Outside of Israel, it seems that everyone is still slaving in the kitchen or in the supermarket, preparing for the holiday for weeks in advance. In Israel, the sense of freedom is palpable as you marvel at the masses of people travelling everywhere.

Oleh Leregel: OK, now it’s time for your bible lesson.  Lets’ check Exodus Chapter 34, Leviticus, Chapter 23 and Deuteronomy ,Chapter 15. What is the main theme in common? There are three Jewish holidays, Pesach, Shavuot and Sukkot, which were marked by the entire nation gathering in Jerusalem from the Ancient Biblical times until the destruction of the second Temple in 70AD. These holidays were the Shalosh  Regalim; the three festivals that one walked to Jerusalem to gather with the rest of the nation. Although this is no longer part of the official celebration (until such time as the Third Temple is built!) people still flock to Jerusalem on the holidays. Wednesday, before we left for Toronto, Barbara, Gila, Ariel, baby Elisha and I went to Jerusalem and met with Lynda and Alan Zysblatt, Barbara’s cousins. We had lunch just outside the Old City and then walked to the Jewish Quarter and the Western Wall. We were joined by thousands of people, Israeli’s and Tourists, streaming through the streets of the ancient Capital. It was an amazing sight, as we jostled to descend to the plaza where the Western Wall is situated and joined groups in prayer next to the Wall. It’s very humbling to think that you are next to the structure that belonged to the Second Temple and that has outlasted over 2 Millennia. This was an appropriate way to say farewell to this leg of the trip, as we headed back to Netanya to pack and prepare for the flight the next morning.

Shabbat: We arrived in Toronto on Thursday evening, just in time to help with dinner and to tuck Shoshana and Shlomo into bed.  Friday was a catch up and prepare for Shabbat day, which led into a reunion with the other side of the family! Shabbat was spent at Elan and Nomi’s home in Toronto, and Monty, Daniella and Tali joined us, along with Nomi’s parents Karyn and Robert and sibs Adina and Daniel.  Just seeing everyone was great, but watching the kids play together was phenomenal. This was made even more special by seeing Nadav, one week post-op, looking amazing, drinking, playful and smiling like a six week old should! The comment of the weekend was Shlomo’s exclamation this morning that that was the best Shabbat, ‘cuz he could play with his cousin! I think we would second that; having our kids and their kids around makes all of these the best possible Shabbat. 

So we are now entering in to the end of the Passover holiday, which in general corresponds with the Easter Holiday, so hopefully everyone reading this will have some special time with their friends and family as we move through this long weekend!

Wishing you a Chag Sameach and Happy Easter!


Barbara and Bruce

Monday, April 14, 2014

Passover 2014

So, here we are, a few hours before Passover. This is the fourth year that we are spending Passover in Israel. Passover, or Pesach, is the holiday of freedom. The Jewish people were taken from slavery to freedom, going from a broken people to becoming a nation. The concepts of Passover are amazing universal messages: no man should lord over another, no man should own another, no nation should think that others are beneath them or inferior to them. The Seder tonight reenacts the Exodus from Egypt, and the acceptance by the Jews of the responsibility of being a nation; to build a society and to serve G-d. I think these are messages that are no less important today as 3000 years ago; in fact, maybe more so. When we look at the world today, people clearly have not embodied what had been taught millennia ago.

The past 10 days have been ultra-eventful, so get set! We left off in Switzerland, in the lovely town of Interlaken. We were attending the 7th International IVIg Congress which was a small meeting of about 200 researchers in Immunology and related fields. The unifying theme was the use of intravenous immunoglobulin in treatment of diseases. I recently published a paper that received quite a bit of notice at the meeting, so it was a lot of fun to discuss theories and practicalities (and politics) in the field with the others. We had a really nice Shabbat, with nice mild weather, perfect for a long walk to one of the lakes, which took up a good part of late Saturday afternoon.  The lakes were nestled between a series of mountains, making it quite idyllic, a lot like Aspen (but not quite as built up or affluent in the town).

Sunday morning, we were off to Israel, taking the first train of the day from Interlaken to the Zurich Airport. Not only is it super convenient to take the train to the airport, but the luggage drop off is in the train station, so you are free of your bags in minutes. Then off to the terminal and a flight to Israel, landing at 2:30.  The next major stop would be Bilha and Chai’s wedding, with a few minor stops in between….Car pick up, Netanya to drop off our bags and get dressed , Givat Shmuel to pick up Ariel, Gila and Elisha and then to the wedding hall. Luckily, the wedding hall was a five minute drive from Ariel’s house! That made things work out just perfectly. The wedding was gorgeous, with many highlights, including the fact that Bilha’s brother Yacov was the Mesader Kedushin,  the presiding clergy for the wedding. That made it all the more meaningful. There was a nice cohort of Montrealers, both present and past, who came to celebrate with the Fruchter family. Of course great food and terrific music topped off the evening.

The next two days were ideal grandparent days. Since Gila and Ariel are both in school (although Gila has been off for maternity leave) they took advantage of the “free” child care to have us hang out with Elisha. As you can see by the accompanying pictures, he is a real sweetie! He is beginning to be playful, looking at toys and following, an occasional smile…perfect 6 week old behavior. So, we strolled him around the local mall and around campus. He played his part really well too, sleeping or lying contented unless he needed feeding.  Definitely a classy baby.

Mixing a bit of business with the pleasure, I visited Tel Aviv University and gave a lecture to the immunology group,which was well received. My host was a superb immunologist named Ariel Munitz, who’s work I have followed as he trained with a good friend, Marc Rothenberg.  Here is a new security wrinkle. You don’t just press up or down to call an elevator in the medical school building. You tell it which floor you want to go to and it tells you which elevator to take. When you get it there are no buttons to push. I am not sure why that is helpful, but it was a great conversation piece.

The rest of the time was punctuated with visits with Sylvia and Haim Fruchter in Netanya, and with Michal and Ronen Sela and family on a beach outside Netanya. Sylvia and Haim were in post wedding mode, visiting family and friends and criss-crossing the county. We picked up Gila and Ariel and the baby on Thursday to give them a bit of a pre-Passover holiday near the beach. We took some very nice sea-side walks, hung out and had a really nice Shabbat together.  Sunday included Passover preparations, although this year, things would be a bit different for us, as we were not hosting the Seder, but rather we are joining Gila’s family for Seder on Monday night. We’re very excited about spending the next couple of days in Neve Daniel. Check out an article about Geula in this week's Jerusalem Post and her painitngs!  

 http://www.jpost.com/Magazine/Features/Checking-the-orange-pages-348121
www.geulaart.com

Of course, life is not always about vacations and fun. A few people noticed that I didn’t send out a post in the customary way on Friday afternoon. This was because at the time we were a bit pre-occupied about things going on in Toronto. Our youngest grandson, Nadav, had been vomiting for a few days, and was evaluated at the Hospital for Sick Children. They diagnosed a small intestinal obstruction (pyloric stenosis) which required a small surgical procedure on Wednesday night. He improved nicely, but as of the beginning of Shabbat in Israel, we did not know if he would be discharged.  We are happy to report that he left the hospital on Friday midafternoon, and based on a great Skype call yesterday, it is clear that he is back to normal! He fed really well Saturday and Sunday . Shoshana and Shlomo were super happy to have their little brother (and parents) home and everyone was back to the daily tasks like shopping and cooking for Passover! Kudos to the nursing and medical staff at Sick Kids for a job very well done!

So, Thank G-d, everyone in the family is at home (or at least in someone’s home!) and will be celebrating Passover with loved ones; we with the Twersky’s in Israel, Elan and Nomi and co. with Nomi’s family  in Toronto, Daniella, Monty and Tali with the Wagner clan in Toronto, my mom in Edmonton with my sister Roanne, etc…! As we sit around the Seder table discussing the Exodus from Egypt and the concept of freedom, we will pause to be thankful for both the ups and downs of life, because without the challenges, it may be hard to truly appreciate the good things.

Wishing everyone a Happy Passover, and Chag Kasher v’sameach and a Happy Easter!

Barbara and Bruce

Mazel Tov to Bilha and Chai on their marriage last week! Mazel Tov to our great Friends Sylvia and Haim 
Fruchter and family on this wonderful simcha!

Mazel to to Ashi and Dassy Stenge and Grandma Gail on the birth of a baby boy!

Mazel to to Moti and Sarah Stenge and Savta Gail on the birth of twin boys! Busy week!!

Happy Birthday to R’ Elan in Toronto
Happy Birthday to David Weisz in Edmonton
Happy Birthday to Josh Samuel in Montreal!



Friday, April 4, 2014

Shabbat April 4, 2014

The travels continue!  I am happy to provide a short post to you all to share where we are and let you know about upcoming events! We will be spending Shabbat in Interlaken, Switzerland, where we are attending the 7th International Immunoglobulin Congress, a meeting related to the research that Bruce is involved in.  Interlaken, like most of Switzerland, is very pretty.  It is situated between two lakes, and at the foot hills of a large numbers of mountains in the Swiss Alps. The famous peaks nearby include Jungfrau  (the “Summit of Europe”) Grindenwald , and at least a dozen others. Barbara commented that it looked a lot like Aspen, where we used to spend time in the summer when we lived in Colorado may moons ago.  We arrived early Thursday AM after an overnight flight, and took the train from Zurich to Interlaken. As an example of how tightly coordinated the Swiss trains are, our Zurich-Berne train was delayed 5 minutes and that did not leave us enough time to catch the connection to Interlaken! No big deal, the next train came 30 minutes later, right on time!

We caught up on some sleep and wandered through Interlaken, through the town, and along the river bank towards the lakes, taking in some picturesque mountain views. Being a cloudy day, it wasn’t a great time to actually go up to a mountain, but the area was really beautiful.  Friday a conference day for Bruce, and Barbara had time for catch up and to see the village. Shabbat will be in the hotel; unlike Lucerne (or Zurich or Geneva) there are no synagogues here.

What is equally exciting is what is in store for the next weeks. On Sunday we are leaving for Israel to attend the wedding of Bilha Fruchter to Chai in Petach Tikvah! That should be a great celebration. In fact, we flew together with Sylvia and Haim Fruchter. Then we will be spending time in Netanya and will get to see our new Israeli grandson Elisha.  We will spend part of Passover with Ariel, Gila and Elisha and Gila’s family.  So by this time next week, we’ll have more news and pictures!

We wish you all a wonderful Shabbat Shalom!

Mazel tov to Sylvia, Haim, Yaacov, Ryla, Shilo and Orly Fruchter on the upcoming marriage of Bilha to Chai!