Friday, December 21, 2018

Shabbat Dec 21-22





Hi everyone, a brief shout out Shabbat Shalom to all. We are scurrying around preparing for Shabbat with 22 people coming for dinner. What’s the deal? Barbara arrived over a week ago, and has already spent Shabbat in Givat Shmuel with Ariel and Gila, babysat and spent the night at Elan’s, did a bunch of correcting, and met some work colleagues. I arrived yesterday and we picked up Gila and the kids and brought them to Netanya.

Shabbat tonight will be bittersweet. As you know our very close friend Sylvia Fruchter passed away on her birthday last January. Today we drove up to Haifa where she is buried, for the unveiling of her headstone. The extended Fruchter family (Canadian and Israel) were there, and Bilha, Haim and Yacov spoke beautifully. It was very fitting for someone who was an amazing wife, mother, grandmother and friend. It was a beautiful day, with the sun shining down on all of us, reminiscent of Sylvia’s smile and sunny disposition, even when she was very ill.

So tonight, we have the Mazer and Fruchter clans for Shabbat Dinner, with a total of 4 babies, 12 adults and 6 children or some such count! It will be very fun to have everyone together and we have been cooking for weeks (well, maybe not!). We’re looking forward to catching up, playing with the kids and to reflect on the important things!

More next week, it’s a promise! And from the Dead Sea at that!

We wish you a wonder, warm and meaningful Shabbat Shalom!

Barbara and Bruce

Happy Birthday to Elaine
Happy Birthday to Danielle
Happy Birthday to Shilo
Happy Birthday to Shlomo!


Friday, October 5, 2018

Parashat Bereshit October 5, 2018


--> We always like to talk about new beginnings, yet I am not sure that new beginnings have the impact people want. We know that many who make New Year “resolutions” may change their behaviors (work out more, eat healthier, spend less time on the internet….) for a few weeks but usually fall back into the same patterns as before. Perhaps new beginnings aren’t so much about radical change but about looking back at the good things that we do and trying to reinforce them. My best example is the cycle of Torah Readings that is a hallmark of the Jewish Calendar. You may notice that sometimes, like today, the blog title lists the name of the weekly Torah Reading. In fact, all Jewish calendars note which portion of the Torah reading we are performing that week. This week, Genesis or Bereshit, is the first chapter of the Bible, where we read the story of Creation, the Biblical origin of Man and Woman, and the early development of societies as we know them today. We do this each year, reading the Torah in sections beginning the week after Sukkot and culminating in Simchat Torah, which we celebrated Monday in Israel and Tuesday in all other countries (more on that in a moment). This annual cycle teaches us that “New Beginnings” are not really “New”; that life is really a cycle and that we need to review, reflect and learn something new from every day, because as events happen, if we do not learn from what came before us, we will repeat the same errors. The lesson of the Torah cycles is that no matter how ancient, and how many times we encounter the same situation, or think we know how to react to a particular person, place or thing, we need to learn something new and use our experiences to grow, to appreciate and to make things better. In Simchat Torah we don’t just celebrate the culmination of the annual cycle of Biblical readings, we immediately read from Genesis as if to say the reason for ending is to begin again, to learn more and take advantage of our experience. This is truly something to Celebrate!
 
And celebrate we did! When we left off last week, we were heading into Shabbat in Neve Daniel, where Elan and Nomi live. Neve Daniel is located on a hill outside of Jerusalem and in general, it’s a few degrees cooler and breezier than most of the country. Not this weekend! The temperature was in the low 30’s and very warm. Great weather for sitting outdoors in the Sukkah over Shabbat. Our niece Jenna and her best friend from Edmonton, Shelli, joined us and we had a great time. Nomi and Elan hosted Friday night dinner and Gila and Ariel joined us, then for Shabbat lunch we went to Geula and Yitzhak Twersky, Gila’s parents. It’s so much fun to see all the cousins together! Shoshana, now 10, sets the tone, like the eldest usually does, but there are lots of great interactions. Ora (18 months old), Ariel’s youngest is in love with Shlomo (age 7); Elisha and Nadav, both 4 ½, born 10 days apart, cause trouble together; Aryeh who is turning a year soon, is standing and taking steps and scoots across the house at blinding speed on all fours. Ora and Aryeh play together nicely, except when they get into a pushing match…It’s terrific fun to watch and enjoy constantly!

Sunday we went to the park with all the kids in the morning and in the PM went to the major Jerusalem Mall (Montreal connection-Azrieli built it like most malls in Israel) with Elan’s kids to cool off. The place was packed, especially the food court! The trip from their suburb to the mall was 18 minutes, thanks to the expansion of a cross Jerusalem highway called the Begin. Amazing what good roads will do and how quickly things can be built (in contrast to our Orange Cone filled landscape in Montreal)

Sunday night and Monday were Simchat Torah. We celebrated in a smaller Synagogue in Neve Daniel, maybe 100 families (the main synagogue is a 15 minute walk, this one was 5), and it was amazing. I have always wondered why Yom Kippur, with it’s solemnness, praying for hours on end, and fasting is probably the greatest day in terms of synagogue attendance. It should be Simchat Torah! We spend hours singing and dancing in Synagogue, we eat great food, we drink a bit, but the focus is on celebrating the Torah, celebrating who we are and what we stand for. The energy of the kids, young and old, singing and dancing, was inspiring. All the little ones were on their parents (or grandparents!) shoulders, so no one missed a beat and people were super involved. It was really great.

Speaking of inspiring, I want to highlight a short video that our friend Alvin Small sent; the story of ADL Director Abe Foxman, who survived the Holocaust as a young child by being hidden by righteous Gentiles. After liberation, his father took him to synagogue for the first time on Simchat Torah. What transpires is tremendous and underlines the unique nature of this underappreciated holiday. You can read the story here, and I will try to repost the video.

https://www.chabad.org/library/article_cdo/aid/1187943/jewish/Soldier-Survivor-Have-Emotional-Reunion.htm  

The last few days in Israel, were spent with the kids on Tuesday (as they had one more day off school), then closing down the Netanya apartment and flying back to “reality”. But considering what we have done in the few weeks between St. Louis, Montreal and Israel, it’s a very good reality!  The flights home were smooth, although with flights packed with children returning home from holidays in Israel we could not get much sleep. On the other hand, there were 12 hours of Moti’s stories and not one was repeated!

I would be amiss if I did not properly quote our good friend Rabbi Yehoshua Grunstein said during his talk at Beth Zion. He spoke about the Jewish New Year period and asked the question if the period between Rosh Hashana-and Yom Kippur (known as the 10 days of Repentance) was a time for a Radical Makeover. He stressed that what we need to do to make changes in our lives is go by little increments, just try a little harder, do a little more, be realistic and not expect radical changes in behavior. As we reflect on the New Beginnings of our cycle of Torah reading, as in family and life, learning just a little bit more all the time will keep us renewed, refreshed and focused on what’s important!

We wish everyone successful new beginnings and a Wonderful Shabbat Shalom!

Barbara and Bruce

Mazel Tov to Haim Fruchter who was honored in Beth Zion as Chatan Bereshit!
Mazel Tov to Rabbi Yitzchak Twersky who was honored in Bet Midrash Derech Avot as Chatan Torah!
Mazel Tov to Willy Lieberman who was honored in Beth Israel Beth Aaron as Chatan Bereshit!

Happy Birthday to Nomi-our amazing daughter in law and Hostess for this Chag
Happy Birthday to Daniella- our amazing daughter in law and Hostess for Rosh Hashana

(Not to forget Gila, our other amazing daughter in law but her birthday is in February)

Happy birthday to Haim!


Friday, September 28, 2018

Shmini Ateret and Simchat Torah 5779


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Chag Sameach V’Shabbat Shalom!

Since our last exchange, we have gone from St. Louis back to Montreal and then from Montreal to Israel; from Netanya to Jerusalem and now to Neve Daniel. Sometimes we wake up and wonder where we are! Seriously, it’s great to be with friends and family, especially around the Jewish holidays, so no complaints at all.

We left St Louis very early the day after Rosh Hashana and landed in Montreal by noon Wednesday, which made that a work day. The short week was topped off by a Shabbaton; a whole Shabbat program at our synagogue (Beth Zion) with several classes led by Rabbi Yehoshua Grunstein from Israel. He has visited several times before and also leads a program called Amiel, that trains couples who wish to leave Israel to serve a Diaspora community; in fact, he mentored Elan and Nomi in preparation for their years in Toronto. Yehoshua is a very dynamic speaker with very unique takes on topics of interest in contemporary Judaism. It was well attended, including meals at the synagogue, and ended with a book signing in honor of Rabbi Grunstein’s new book. There were so many people, he ran out of books; I think we are taking home copies for those who did not get one at the signing!

The following Wednesday was Yom Kippur. It’s the most solemn day in the Jewish Calendar, with fasting and prayer, and most of the time from one sundown to the next day after dark is spent in synagogue. For the past few year, when we are in Montreal, we joined a group who meet just for the high holidays, slightly more informal, lots of singing and very respectful prayer services. It’s organized by our friends Gabi Cohen and Cindy Faust, and they deserve many congratulations for pulling it off se seamlessly year after year. We ended the fast at Grandma’s which was fun, and we hope to do this with her for many more years!

The next day (Sept 20) we departed for Israel on a direct flight from Montreal to Tel Aviv. This is the second year that Air Canada and Air Transat have re-started flying to Israel during the Summer and Jewish High Holyday season since flights were shifted from Montreal to Toronto in 2000. As you would expect, it’s more pleasant (and faster) to get on one plane and get off in Israel 10 hours later than changing and transferring. We got our luggage and our car and headed off to Netanya.

Shabbat was spent with all the Israeli grandchildren and their parents; we picked up Gila, Ariel, Elisha and Ora from Givat Shmuel and Nomi, Elan, Shoshana, Shlomo, Nadav and Aryeh came just before Shabbat. The apartment was hopping, with six kids running around. Everyone plays so well together, from littlest to biggest. It’s really quite special.

Speaking of which, it was almost exactly 10 years ago this week that I started writing this blog. Its title, Mazers in Jerusalem, comes from the fact that we were on Sabbatical living in Jerusalem, and this was a way to record what we were doing and share it with family and friends. It’s quite fun to go back to older posts and see how everyone has grown up. I told Shoshana that it’s the 10th anniversary of the blog and that it was started when she was three months old. I think she and the others will get a kick out of the pictures and how everyone has changed and grown up so amazingly!

If you are considering coming to Israel, Sukkot in Israel is a great time to come. Of course, if you wish to be a plain tourist, the entire country is on holiday, so there is traffic, all the interesting places are packed, there is nowhere to park…. but, if you come to celebrate Sukkot, it can’t be beat. The weather is perfect to sit outside in a Sukkah (the temporary huts with thatched roofs we eat and celebrate in) and the whole country seems to be in a state of happiness, which fits one of the Hebrew names for the Holiday (Z’man Simchatenu, our time of happiness). I will pause to say that we are sorry to hear about the horrible weather back home and especially the Tornado in Ottawa. Thank G-d non-one was badly hurt, but I don’t think Sukkahs did very well.  Why are we Happy on Sukkot? Several explanations: It’s the holiday of the final harvest, so our homes were filled with plenty at this time of year in agricultural societies; it’s the holiday that follows the solemnness of Rosh Hashana and Yom Kippur when the world is held to Judgement by G-d; and we end the annual cycle of Torah reading and restart the Torah cycle on Simchat Torah, the last day of the holiday.

The rest of our week in Netanya was spent at the beach, in parks, airconditioned malls or at the town square where Elisha and Ora could go on the Carousel or hop on the ever-present Panda blow up (I think I have pictures of almost all grandchildren except Ezra and maybe Tali jumping on the Panda in Netanya). We got to baby sit and play with the little ones and the bigger ones too! Can’t ask for better.

We will be spending the next few days at Elan’s home in Neve Daniel, just outside of Jerusalem. Yesterday we went to the First Train Station in Jerusalem, with Gila and Ariel and the kids. It was one big sidewalk festival, with vendors, games, music and lots of food. This train station was rebuilt as a gentrified shopping area about 3 years ago. Yesterday it was also the meeting point for a huge parade celebrating Israel’s 70th Anniversary. People from all over the world participated in national costumes, with dancing and lots of flag waving. It was quite an impressive sight!

It’s certainly interesting to be in Israel during the week of the UN speeches by the world leaders. Not to get too deeply into politics, but the optimism here about the extremely tight US-Israel relations at present and the inroads in discussions with more West friendly Arab regimes is all over the news. People shake their heads over Trumps antics, but if there is a country who has benefited from his policies and Nikki Haley’s passionate rhetoric in the UN, it’s Israel. Of course, it’s not time for complacency, as things change quickly in the political world as we well know (like in Quebec, where the election in this coming week on Shmini Atezret if you have not noticed. I hope all our friends have voted!!). We are also inundated with Municipal Election signs here. We don’t vote here. But the Mayor of Netanya has done a terrific job of encouraging building over her terms. So what if she has been investigated for some interesting business deals? The city looks great….

PS: Jenna and Shelly just arrived!

We wish everyone a wonderful Shabbat and Chag Sameach, wherever you are!

Barbara and Bruce

Happy Birthday to Nomi-our amazing daughter in law and Hostess for this Chag
Happy Birthday to Daniella- our amazing daughter in law and Hostess for Rosh Hashana

(Not to forget Gila, our other amazing daughter in law but her birthday is in February)

Happy birthday to Avi Kessler!
Happy birthday to Hendrix!
Happy birthday to Eva!
Happy birthday to Penelope!
Happy birthday to Melissa!