Friday, September 28, 2018

Shmini Ateret and Simchat Torah 5779


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Chag Sameach V’Shabbat Shalom!

Since our last exchange, we have gone from St. Louis back to Montreal and then from Montreal to Israel; from Netanya to Jerusalem and now to Neve Daniel. Sometimes we wake up and wonder where we are! Seriously, it’s great to be with friends and family, especially around the Jewish holidays, so no complaints at all.

We left St Louis very early the day after Rosh Hashana and landed in Montreal by noon Wednesday, which made that a work day. The short week was topped off by a Shabbaton; a whole Shabbat program at our synagogue (Beth Zion) with several classes led by Rabbi Yehoshua Grunstein from Israel. He has visited several times before and also leads a program called Amiel, that trains couples who wish to leave Israel to serve a Diaspora community; in fact, he mentored Elan and Nomi in preparation for their years in Toronto. Yehoshua is a very dynamic speaker with very unique takes on topics of interest in contemporary Judaism. It was well attended, including meals at the synagogue, and ended with a book signing in honor of Rabbi Grunstein’s new book. There were so many people, he ran out of books; I think we are taking home copies for those who did not get one at the signing!

The following Wednesday was Yom Kippur. It’s the most solemn day in the Jewish Calendar, with fasting and prayer, and most of the time from one sundown to the next day after dark is spent in synagogue. For the past few year, when we are in Montreal, we joined a group who meet just for the high holidays, slightly more informal, lots of singing and very respectful prayer services. It’s organized by our friends Gabi Cohen and Cindy Faust, and they deserve many congratulations for pulling it off se seamlessly year after year. We ended the fast at Grandma’s which was fun, and we hope to do this with her for many more years!

The next day (Sept 20) we departed for Israel on a direct flight from Montreal to Tel Aviv. This is the second year that Air Canada and Air Transat have re-started flying to Israel during the Summer and Jewish High Holyday season since flights were shifted from Montreal to Toronto in 2000. As you would expect, it’s more pleasant (and faster) to get on one plane and get off in Israel 10 hours later than changing and transferring. We got our luggage and our car and headed off to Netanya.

Shabbat was spent with all the Israeli grandchildren and their parents; we picked up Gila, Ariel, Elisha and Ora from Givat Shmuel and Nomi, Elan, Shoshana, Shlomo, Nadav and Aryeh came just before Shabbat. The apartment was hopping, with six kids running around. Everyone plays so well together, from littlest to biggest. It’s really quite special.

Speaking of which, it was almost exactly 10 years ago this week that I started writing this blog. Its title, Mazers in Jerusalem, comes from the fact that we were on Sabbatical living in Jerusalem, and this was a way to record what we were doing and share it with family and friends. It’s quite fun to go back to older posts and see how everyone has grown up. I told Shoshana that it’s the 10th anniversary of the blog and that it was started when she was three months old. I think she and the others will get a kick out of the pictures and how everyone has changed and grown up so amazingly!

If you are considering coming to Israel, Sukkot in Israel is a great time to come. Of course, if you wish to be a plain tourist, the entire country is on holiday, so there is traffic, all the interesting places are packed, there is nowhere to park…. but, if you come to celebrate Sukkot, it can’t be beat. The weather is perfect to sit outside in a Sukkah (the temporary huts with thatched roofs we eat and celebrate in) and the whole country seems to be in a state of happiness, which fits one of the Hebrew names for the Holiday (Z’man Simchatenu, our time of happiness). I will pause to say that we are sorry to hear about the horrible weather back home and especially the Tornado in Ottawa. Thank G-d non-one was badly hurt, but I don’t think Sukkahs did very well.  Why are we Happy on Sukkot? Several explanations: It’s the holiday of the final harvest, so our homes were filled with plenty at this time of year in agricultural societies; it’s the holiday that follows the solemnness of Rosh Hashana and Yom Kippur when the world is held to Judgement by G-d; and we end the annual cycle of Torah reading and restart the Torah cycle on Simchat Torah, the last day of the holiday.

The rest of our week in Netanya was spent at the beach, in parks, airconditioned malls or at the town square where Elisha and Ora could go on the Carousel or hop on the ever-present Panda blow up (I think I have pictures of almost all grandchildren except Ezra and maybe Tali jumping on the Panda in Netanya). We got to baby sit and play with the little ones and the bigger ones too! Can’t ask for better.

We will be spending the next few days at Elan’s home in Neve Daniel, just outside of Jerusalem. Yesterday we went to the First Train Station in Jerusalem, with Gila and Ariel and the kids. It was one big sidewalk festival, with vendors, games, music and lots of food. This train station was rebuilt as a gentrified shopping area about 3 years ago. Yesterday it was also the meeting point for a huge parade celebrating Israel’s 70th Anniversary. People from all over the world participated in national costumes, with dancing and lots of flag waving. It was quite an impressive sight!

It’s certainly interesting to be in Israel during the week of the UN speeches by the world leaders. Not to get too deeply into politics, but the optimism here about the extremely tight US-Israel relations at present and the inroads in discussions with more West friendly Arab regimes is all over the news. People shake their heads over Trumps antics, but if there is a country who has benefited from his policies and Nikki Haley’s passionate rhetoric in the UN, it’s Israel. Of course, it’s not time for complacency, as things change quickly in the political world as we well know (like in Quebec, where the election in this coming week on Shmini Atezret if you have not noticed. I hope all our friends have voted!!). We are also inundated with Municipal Election signs here. We don’t vote here. But the Mayor of Netanya has done a terrific job of encouraging building over her terms. So what if she has been investigated for some interesting business deals? The city looks great….

PS: Jenna and Shelly just arrived!

We wish everyone a wonderful Shabbat and Chag Sameach, wherever you are!

Barbara and Bruce

Happy Birthday to Nomi-our amazing daughter in law and Hostess for this Chag
Happy Birthday to Daniella- our amazing daughter in law and Hostess for Rosh Hashana

(Not to forget Gila, our other amazing daughter in law but her birthday is in February)

Happy birthday to Avi Kessler!
Happy birthday to Hendrix!
Happy birthday to Eva!
Happy birthday to Penelope!
Happy birthday to Melissa!








Friday, September 14, 2018

Rosh Hashana 5779

Shana Tova! This is (I hope) the first of a few blogs that will help usher in the New Year. We had the great pleasure of spending Rosh Hashana in St Louis, MO, where Daniella, Monty, Tali and Ezra live. Monty is in his second year of fellowship in Pediatric Intensive Care. It goes without saying that his first year was rather intense, not only for him because of a huge clinical load, but also for his family as he really spent a lot of time at the hospital. After another intense summer, this year should be a bit easier with more research blocks and about half the clinical time as last year. He has a great research supervisor and is working on understanding better treatments for severe infections in the ICU. Daniella set up a great house, managed renovations, school, homework, appointments and basically keeps things going in an amazing way. So, for this trip, Barbara went out last week to help prepare for the holidays and Bruce and Grandma left Montreal on a 5:30 AM flight (don’t ask what time we went to the airport!)

St Louis is usually very hot and VERY humid! So imagine our surprise when we arrived and the temperature was 70 degrees, very sunny and very pleasant! It was a great day for an outdoor activity; on previous trips it was always too hot, so we did things like the Magic Castle (the St Louis Children’s Museum). This time we went to Grant’s Farm, a nature reserve with a tram ride, animals like elk, buffalo, zebras, and deer roaming around freely, and a cool petting zoo with goats (you can feed them with milk), camel rides (Tali is super brave!) a bird cage where dozens of parakeets roam free and you feed them (while they fly all over you!) and other fun things. Great activity. Grant of Grant’s farm was President Ulysses S. Grant, who worked or owned part of the farm, and the 280+ acres were owned by the Anheiser Busch Family, owners of Budwieser. Where else can you find a petting zoo with free beer? The huge Mansion they built, with 231 rooms is still there! Everyone had a great time.

Rosh Hashana was really beautiful. We went to synagogue at the Young Israel of St Louis, which is considerably larger than the Young Israel of greater Buffalo (Daniella and Monty’s previous home). Monty led services one of the days which was spectacular. The congregation sang along and the atmosphere was terrific. We had some amazing holiday meals (what’s a Jewish Holiday with our lots of great food?) Daniella really outdid herself with great food and by inviting lots of guests to their home. It was great to watch Tali and Ezra in action. When Tali wasn’t playing with friends, she was “babysitting” a set of 1 year old twins during one of the meals. Very impressive for a 6 year old; we are setting up her web site and you can contact her for babysitting services anytime! Meanwhile, Ezra serenaded us with his guitar and danced to lots of songs and videos. Maybe he has his father’s gift for music?

The prayers on Rosh Hashana are predominantly about the Kingship of God and it really makes one reflect on one’s place in life and in the world. However, as Rabbi Shulman of the Young Israel synagogue said, there is a dichotomy in the prayers, because at the same time as we celebrate the Kingship, we also reflect on the personal relation we have with God. This is best put forward in the prayer Avinu Malkenu which literally means our Father, our King. This makes the relationship complex; do we relate with trepidation, the fear of approaching a Monarch, or expect the love and closeness of a parent? Yet there is no real contradiction. As a parent, we want the best for our children. We nurture and encourage them, but at times, we have to set limits and provide sterner guidance. However, the Avinu (Father) part means that we should always display our nurturing part, to always provide our children and friends somewhere to go, a home to return to; we should never forsake anyone. This is a crucial lesson both in relation to our religious life and in relation to our children, grandchildren, relatives and friends. Let us all learn from this duality and treat each other with respect and loving kindness. May the New Year be one of health, happiness and success, and the lessons learned from the Rosh Hashana prayers help guide us to always be there when people need us!

Wishing everyone Shabbat Shalom and G’Mar Chatima Tova (May you be inscribed for a Good Year!) and an easy and meaningful fast if you are observing Yom Kippur!
Barbara and Bruce