Friday, January 16, 2026

Shabbat January 16-17

This will be a bit of a quick blog, since we ran into traffic picking up our precious shabbat guests (Aryeh and Nadav, grandchildren from Efrat!) So, we’ll type as fast as we can and post just under the wire! 

The main concerns here this week, as last but ramped up somewhat, is the tenuous relation between Iran and Israel, between Trump and Netanyahu, between Trump and The Ayatollah, and what the protests and civil unrest will lead too.  The lack of media presence and the issues that are the root causes of the protests, meaning the brutality of the regime, the autocratic, theocratic rule with the oppression and lack of freedom are rarely mentioned by CNN and other so called Legacy media. You want the real scoop? Read and Israeli paper. Iran has been front and centre. The other preoccupation is, what will trump do? Will he or won’t he? Will Iran respond by bombing Israel (which is only a logical response in the minds of Islamists and perhaps the extreme left)? What will Israel do? And practical things, like should we keep a supply of matches, batteries and water handy for emergencies? What do you do with those batteries and matches anyway?  However, so far so good, and things are simmering, but not boiling, which is probably for the best. 

Aside from doom scrolling and news watching, we had as full a week as usual! Last Shabbat was spent in Netanya with Gila, Ariel, Elisha, Ora and Adi. We had fun preparing the food (as usual it looked like we cooked for 20 instead of 7) and played lots of games, took walks, and had Lori and Alvan join us for Shabbat Lunch. This led to some very interesting conversations (too many details for now!), and everyone enjoyed. Post-Shabbat we returned everyone to Petach Tikvah and then spent the rest of the evening restoring our apartment to its usual status. 

The rest of the week flew by. On Sunday, we took a long walk along the boardwalk in the part of Netanya known as South Beach, near where the city has built a second elevator from the cliff to the beach. On Monday, Bruce attended some meetings with Allergy colleagues at Sheba Hospital near Ramat Gan where he spent his sabbatical last year. We’re working on some very interesting collaborative projects. Monday was also Ariel’s birthday, and though we had other evening plans, we got to take him out for a really nice lunch at a nearby café. The rest of the day included several other zoom meetings and dinner at the Gough’s, our neighbors from Manchester England, who, although they have been in Israel 40+ years sound very British with a distinct Manchester accent! They are super nice people, and we enjoyed talking about travel and other fun things. 

Israel is a place with extremely temperate weather so an interruption to that pattern send people into a tizzy! Therefore, at the prediction of torrential rains and winds for Tuesday, the country basically shut down. The rain and wind started just around midnight, and was very heavy. In fact, it caused our friends, the Kesslers, from coming to a planned visit. Fortunately, the brunch we prepared was still enjoyed by us and the Smalls, and we look forward to seeing Zev and Debbie Kessler next week. 

More highlights included visiting the relatively new Eli Cohen Museum on Wednesday, followed later in the day with dinner in Binyamina at the home of Maayan and Talia Ben-Sassoon. Maayan is an MD who did a 2-year pain fellowship at the Montreal General Hospital. Barbara (and Helene Kaufman) had tutored their daughter Shaked, who came to Montreal with little or no English. Well, now she is not only fluent in English but won a public speaking contest at her school with a brilliant and funny speech about Recycling and Composting in Canada and contrasted it with Israel. Amazing how she picked up the language!

Thursday we also had a treat, picking up the gang in Petach Tikva from school, treating them to a great lunch and going bowling; the excuse was that we had to babysit till about 8 PM. I am not sure who enjoyed this more, the kids or us, but everyone was smiling all day!

OK, Shabbat is in 35 minutes, and we have Aryeh and Nadav to entertain. I will add some details on Eli Cohen for next week as it is a fascinating story!


We wish you a safe and peaceful Shabbat Shalom!

Barbara and Bruce


Happy Anniversary to Roanne and David!


Refuah Shelema-we wish Shmuel Yosef ben Alexandra Ariella a speedy recovery

Refuah Shelema-we wish Avraham Ephraim ben Kayla Shoshana a speedy recovery




Friday, January 9, 2026

Shabbat Shalom January 9-10

OK everyone, get your walking shoes on, we are going to put everyone through their paces. Although we are not hiking in the Grand Canyon or the Panamanian Rain Forest, we have put on enough mileage between our car and more importantly, our shoes, to burn a few calories to counteract all the great food we are eating here. According to my app we are easily averaging 10K steps a day! So, now, let’s retrace our steps and get a handle on this busy week! 

Shabbat last week was in Efrat with Nomi, Elan and their gang. Everyone was at home, and Shlomo was celebrating his 15th birthday. The weather was bright and sunny, about 15C, and everyone enjoyed the great food (including Elan’s almost award winning cholent, which came in second in the cook off for some absolutely insane reason) and was followed by a Saturday evening birthday celebration with Elan’s version of the Red Burger (our absolute favorite burger place) “Hamburger with Steak” along with movie night. Most of the steps that day were to synagogue or in the neighborhood for a walk.
We stayed over on Saturday night because we were in charge of chauffeuring a couple of grandchildren. So, Sunday morning began by taking Shlomo out to Bagel Café for breakfast, which was fun since it’s always fun to have one on one time, especially with teens. Shlomo is going to high school about 30 minutes from Efrat, and stays at the dorm 3-4 nights a week. When he is home for Shabbat, his school starts around noon, so he catches a bus from his school at 10:30 right across the street from the Bagel Café. We then spent some time at the Malcha Mall supporting the Jerusalem economy while we waited for our afternoon pickup time. We picked up Nadav and took him to his horseback riding activity where he is learning to ride and to train horses. Very cool indeed! Then, off to Petach Tikvah, to attend a double gymnastics exhibition with Adi and Ora. Their gymnastics school has a mid-year show for parents, and in our case, grandparents. It’s quite spectacular what 6- and 8-year-old girls can do in terms of cartwheels, bridges, flips and other contortions! Very fun and the girls made us very proud!
Monday was a beautiful day, and jet lag was beginning to lift, which meant we actually got out into the world before noon! Our friend Gail has purchased an apartment in Netanya about 3km south of our place. We took advantage of a bright, sunny morning to walk along the sea boardwalk to her new place and take the tour. It’s a lovely apartment in a brand-new building with a gorgeous balcony and view of the sea. We wish many years in the sun there! We walked back to the centre of town to continue our walk with Alvan and Lori including a lunch and a few errands thrown in for good measure. Tuesday was errand and shopping day, with trips to Nespresso, Ikea, and Rami Levi (a well-known Israeli Grocery store chain). This allowed us to start preparations for the upcoming Shabbat when Ariel and Gila and their kids are coming. 


Nostalgia time. Way back in the early 80’s a bunch of young married couples moved  north of Van Horn along Westbury and invaded the Shomrim Laboker Synagogue. In those days the famous Cantor Yakov Motzen was there, as well as Rabbi Chaim Denburg, a Montreal fixture for over 50 years. We collectively brought down the age of the shul from mid 70’s to maybe 68? Who knows? However, this bunch of renegades started to the Shomrim Laboker Young Adults’ group, with the great acronym of SLYAG. Fast forward, now we are the people we made fun of in the 80’s. Well, not so much, but the core group has remained friends till today. On Wednesday, Mary Ruth and Ronnie Gehr, who made Aliyah in 2022, visited Netanya for the first time since they moved to Israel. We had a great brunch and then took them for a walk along the boardwalk and into town. We then met up with SLYAG alumni Anne and Jonathan Homa at MoJoSan in the Piano Centre in Ir Yamin, the newest and hippest section in South Netanya. 
After dinner, we went to a fundraiser, Comedy for Koby. This amazing program, featuring an American comedian named Avi Lieberman, stages shows twice a year to raise funds for the Koby Mandell Foundation. This organization provides social and psychological assistance for kids who have lost loved ones due to war or terror attacks. Clearly, they have had an increase in their work since October 7th. Avi brings in 3 other comedians and takes them around the country; this time the lineup included Andy Pilz, Liz Glazer and Rob Shynder. They were excellent, particularly Rob Shynder! This is worth going to (if you are in Israel till the end of next week there are still shows!)
What else is going on here? I must say the news in Israel is somewhat dwarfed by the news in Iran (or whatever can be gleaned from the videos sent by the protestors). It is hard to know how this will play out; we can only hope for a change that brings peace and security to the entire region.  

We did need to stop and cook to prepare for the arrival of Gila, Ariel, Elisha, Ora and Adi. Thursday AM was spent in the kitchen, then a walk north to a whole new development in Netanya called Blue Bay (really lovely apartments and stores) and a drive to Petach Tikvah to pick up the 3 kids for dinner and a sleep over. We woke up early and Elisha and I took another long walk to pick up fresh Challahs and baked goods and other things needed for Shabbat. As we are winding down on time, we will send this out and hope to have more news and insights next week!

Have a warm and amazing Shabbat! 
Barbara and Bruce

Happy Birthday to Ariel
Happy Birthday to Damien
Happy Birthday to Jeff Rein
Happy Birthday to Zev Kessler
Happy Anniversary to Sheila and Billy

Refuah Shlema to Linda
Refuah Shelema-we wish Shmuel Yosef ben Alexandra Ariella a speedy recovery
Refuah Shelema-we wish Avraham Ephraim ben Kayla Shoshana a speedy recovery








 

Friday, January 2, 2026

Shabbat January 2-3, 2026


A New Year, a new trip, and of course, a new blog! It’s so good to be able to chat with everyone again (don’t ask why we don’t do this more regularly!) and to share the fun and excitement of our first week back here in Israel. Of course, no first week would be complete without an almost hair-raising travel story! This one is not quite as crazy as some of our escapes from COVID, but it did take some foresight and advance planning! We had booked flights from Montreal to Israel via Toronto to depart on December 29th, this past Monday. Right after Shabbat last week, the first story on our news feed was that there was an “Orange Weather Alert”! Environment (and Climate Change) Canada has recently changed their alert system to colors. For example, there is a Yellow Snow Alert! You know what that means, don’t you? Don’t eat the yellow snow! OK seriously, as silly as it seems, the color system is supposed to tell us about the “severity” of the weather patterns. The Orange is moderate to severe weather; there was to be an Ice Storm on the aforementioned December 29th, with freezing rain, broken branches, falling power lines, slippery streets, and all that goes along with these lovely events. Seeing this, we decided to try to leave on the 28th if possible. So, we sprung into action and called Air Canada, only to be told that they were unaware that the weather was coming to Montreal, and that the Ice Storm Alert they had was only for Ottawa. They could not extrapolate with Ottawa being just west on Montreal, that we would be having the same weather….OK, call number 1. 90 minutes later, the Air Canada website acknowledged that we Montrealers were in the path of the Ice Storm, so we called back  (I will spare you how long we were on hold or on the better “automatic call back option”) and got an agent willing to move our trip from the 29th to the 28th. Except just as he was about to confirm, the line went dead (must have been the weather). Again, back on the phone, back on hold, and finally, an agent who we could talk to and who moved us from the 29th to the 28th.  However, did you ever try to get two seats together on a flight to Israel less than 24 hours in advance? By a stroke of luck and Barbara’s keen eye we found the one last pair of seats with a window and middle that were open! After a few more technical glitches and another call to good old AC, we were checked in and ready to scurry and finish packing, not to mention finish the dresses Barbara had been working on for Ora and Adi! 

The next day we made our way to the airport, and the trip got into gear. Again, with a last-minute change, we had no guarantee of Kosher food on the flight, so Andy and Mara were kind enough to meet us during our 4+ hour layover with some greatly appreciated sandwiches and snacks. The flight to Israel was otherwise uneventful, with the usual crying babies, people behind us kicking our seats and a lady sitting next to Barbara trying to sleep with a big white blanket over her head which was quite a sight! Had we decided to try to leave on the original flight, we would have made it, but would have suffered through a 3-hour delay on the flight from Montreal to Toronto, and a 4-hour delay for the departure to Israel. You get to pick your poison….!

This week has been short (we arrived Monday) with no major events yet, but still very fun. Monday evening, we were greeted with a visit from Lori and Alvan Small who, as in past years, will be spending a good chunk of the winter down the block from us. Tuesday afternoon (which was when we started our day, thanks to jetlag) we went to Efrat to visit Nomi and Elan’s family and have dinner with them. They all look great and everyone is doing fun things; Shoshana is a senior in high school and just got her driver’s license; Shlomo is dorming-in at the high school he started in September; Nadav is very busy at school, with extra-curricular activities and does horse riding and grooming every Sunday; Aryeh is a soccer wizard and greeted us in his bright orange uniform; and Eitan is 4 and thus the cute little one of the family! We will be spending Shabbat with them as well. 

Wednesday led to a visit with Gila and Ariel and their family which again was fun and an adventure in catching up in person! Elisha, now in 6th grade, is preparing to go to high school next year and is super busy with drama, basketball and other activities; Ora is in 3rd grade and gymnastics (and proudly just got new glasses!); and Adi is a first grader also busy in gymnastics! We had dinner at the new local Café Calma, a two-minute walk from their house, set in a garden with fruit trees. It’s really pretty and the food was excellent. 

It's winter in Israel, which means cooler temperatures (between 10 and 20 in Netanya) and, in good years, quite a bit of rain. Not fun for tourists, but good for the country and it’s agrarian economy. Thursday was predicted to have an 85% chance of rain in Netanya, which appears to have been very accurate. Lots of rain, thunder, lightning and mini-floods. The drainage system in Israel is set up for a country that gets very little rain, so it’s easily overwhelmed by a significant downpour. I am not really sure why; if the Roman’s figured out how to build aqueducts in Caesarea 2000 years ago, why can’t anyone build a modern sewer system to accommodate heavy rains? Come to think of it, it’s a problem in Montreal too, isn’t it? 

The solid dose of rain meant that we did mostly errands at home today, but we did get out to have dinner with Gail who was in Netanya. We tried one restaurant which was having a very big, noisy party, so we left after a few minutes of tympanic membrane shattering music and singing. We ended up in a quieter place, in the Piano Shopping Centre in the Southern part of Netanya known as Ir Yamim. This is a new hot spot, particularly in nice weather when its terraces are full of people. Sadly, that was not the case tonight due to the steady drizzle followed by intermittent thunderstorms! However, dinner was great, and the music was a just the right decibel level so we could converse without shouting (I was going to write “without turning up our hearings aids” but fortunately, none of us have those yet…). 

Now, everyone is asking, of course, how are things in Israel overall? For one, the country is a lot quieter, no ongoing war, no major protests, and of course the newspapers are filled with commentary criticizing everything! Bibi Netanyahu has been making the news hanging out with POTUS Trump, and we can only guess what really takes place in those conversations. Not all is quiet, of course, as the Lebanese border continues to be a challenge due to Hezbollah, and with major protests going on in Iran, the mullahs may want to create a distraction. Let’s hope things will not escalate from there. 

One observation was that there were a lot of people arriving at the airport when we got there. The passport control line was very long and lots of people were in the baggage areas. When Lori and Alvan arrived, they also were pleasantly surprised to see a large number of people in the airport as well. This is supported by the latest tourism statistics that shows that 2025 was much better than the turbulent 2024 year and in particular, since the October cease fire, more tourists have been coming to visit Israel. I think we have a long way to go, sadly, but it definitely looks better than the last couple of years. May 2026 be a year of healing and more stability!

We are in Efrat for Shabbat at Nomi and Elan’s with temperatures going down to 3-4C at night, which is not quite -22 (predicted for Montreal) but still a might chilly for Israel! More about Shabbat and all upcoming events next week!

We wish you a wonderful Shabbat Shalom and best wishes for a year of peace and sanity in 2026!

Barbara and Bruce

Happy Birthday to Alvan!

Happy Birthday to Sheila!

Happy Birthday to Gail!

Happy Birthday to Debbie!

Refuah Shelema-we wish Shmuel Yosef ben Alexandra Ariella a speedy recovery

Refuah Shelema-we wish Avraham Ephraim ben Kayla Shoshana a speedy recovery