Sunday, August 11, 2013

A d’var Torah in memory of Mike Samuel, Michael ben Mordechai Z”L

The week of Tish B’Av, we always begin the book of Deuteronomy, Sefer D’varim.  This is not a coincidence. In fact, the juxtaposition of Sefer D’varim with the onset of Tisha B’av, is extremely meaningful and provides valuable insights into our how we should conduct ourselves over the next several weeks. Indeed, the period that begins with Shiva-Assar B’Tamuz, continuing with Rosh Chodesh Av, and culminating with Tisha B’Av, is a period that is ideal for introspection. The lack of public celebrations, the focus on the destruction of Bet Hamikdash and the reminders of the causation of the temple’s destruction were rooted in Sinat Hinam (baseless hatred) should make us reflect on where we are, what we are doing and how we relate to others. This does not really stop with Tisha B’Av, although following the fast we eliminate the rituals of mourning. The period of introspection broadens as we head into Elul, the month preceding Rosh Ha-Shana and Yom Kippur. This time is meant for us to sharpen our focus on our deeds and actions and especially our relations to others.
What is the connection between Tisha B’Av, and starting Sefer D’varim?  Why could this period not  just be in the middle of BaMidbar ,the book of Numbers, with its many tragedies? Why did our Rabbis double parshiot to ensure that the onset of Shavua Sh-Chal bo (the week in which Tisha B’av falls) always corresponds to the first parasha in D’varim? The answer is most likely found in the unique character of this book. Its sub-title is Mishneh Torah, loosely translated as the second or the additional Torah, in which we find many concepts introduced in the first 4 books of Moses repeated. We re-read the 10 commandments next Shabbat, we re-learn the laws of kashrut, and see repetition of many laws in the text. The uniqueness of this Sefer is in its tone. The focal point of Sefer D’varim is in how Moshe speaks to the nation. He goes beyond the role of teacher more so than almost any other place, he becomes the leader, the moral compass, the master who verbalizes for the people what their place is, the errors they have made, and they can use Torah and Mitzvot to correct these failings.
The Netziv points out, in his superb introduction to D’varim, that of all the books of the Torah, this is the one that most embodies words of Musar, ethical behavior. He highlights that although the Musar is being spoken to Bnei Yisrael through Moshe, is it truly with Ruach HaKodesh, Divine inspiration, that this is being taught. That is to say, this is not just admonishments, or the railing of a leader who will not enter the land; this is the true word of G-d and a clear path for how we are to live. If you are able to follow these words, writes the Netziv, you will be able to achieve a life of success and sweetness, and life of milk and honey.
A very concrete and wonderful example of how we should conduct ourselves is given in the Haftorah that accompanies Parashat D’varim. The first chapter of Isaiah sets the stage for the destruction of Jerusalem, speaking about corruption and the emptiness of worship at that time. It appears, unfortunately, that not much has changed in 2000 years. However, there is a clear message of how to transcend this and rebuild society. “Limdu Hetev, Dirshu Mishpat” (Isaiah 1, verse 17) “Learn to do good, seek justice, strengthen the victim, do justice for the orphan, take up the cause of the widow”. Focus your energies on the weak, the downtrodden, those less fortunate, and you build a just and loving society. This is what G-d through the prophet asks of us. Paying attention to those less fortunate was one of Mike’s most important legacies. Papa was generous with his time, for kids at the Douglas Hospital, through his work with the Knights of Pythians, in building the Shul in Val Royal, and in taking care of family and friends who were in need. Whether it was just to give sage advice or a more material helping hand, there was never a question; if there was something to be done to help someone, Mike was there. He certainly passed this concept on to his children; to Mark (Z”L), Len and Barbara who all carry on this generous nature.
We do not need a revolution to change society. We need to listen carefully to the needs of people, have the presence to be sensitive and listen to the cues. The messages of Sefer D’varim, of Isaiah speak clearly to us. The Netziv concludes his introduction by affirming that every man carries out the word of G-d according to his strengths to the capacities that he is given. Let us work together to preserve the important messages of this time of year, to improve ourselves and how we treat others, and set an example for others to follow to build a better world.
The Nishmato z’ror b’tzror Ha-hayim

May Michael ben Mordechai’s memory always be a blessing and a shining example for his entire family. 

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